So. . last night hubby and I watched Hot Tub Timemachine. It was a little weird, yes, but insanely funny. Made hubby and I think a lot about the "What if's" in life and what we would or would not change if given the opportunity. There was a line in the movie where someone said something to the effect of, "This girl's not your destiny she's just some girl you dated in high school." I asked my hubby, "Am I just some girl you dated in high school?" He slyly coos. . . "No. . . you THE girl I dated in highschool and THEN married!"
Hubby makes me smile becuase he always seems to know EXACTLY the right thing to say. He's one of those guys that is such a romantic, yet people who know him think I'm nuts when I say that! He's a good guy and I'm lucky to have found him again. :-)
While there are many things in my past that I would not change, mainly because those experiences are what made me the person I am, I would change that I waited so long to get back in touch with Hubby. I thought about him often as the years flew by and I wish I had acted upon those thoughts earlier. Perhaps, I was only ready to do so at the exact moment I did though.. . .and that leads me to think, it's probably better for me to stop thinking about all the things I could have done or regretting the choices I've made in the past and just enjoy now.