So, David's brother, Ricky, is engaged. I'm super happy for him, I think of him as my own brother, so it's nice to see him happy. With Ricky's engagement has come the barrage of questioning, again, for David and I. When are you two getting married? Why hasn't he popped the question yet? T-W-E-L-V-E years?! And you're not married yet? Why doesn't he sh-t or get off the pot?
Yes, I've heard it all. I've pretty much thought it all too. The thing is, I don't really care about marriage. I'm not religious and I live a pretty unconventional life by some. David and I have lived together for about three years already, at this point, what is marriage really going to do for us besides be a legality? When it comes down to it, I'm cool with the way things are. When David and I began dating, I was really all about not being married and that was part of why we clicked.
What's happened with Ricky's engagement is that I've really started exploring my views on marriage and how I really feel about it. I've decided that although I like the idea of getting married and would be happy if David changed his mind about the topic, I'm not willing to give an ultimatum or leave if we don't get married. To me, this says that I'm pretty relaxed about the topic. This came to me after lots of mulling the topic over. So, here I am. I'm unmarried and that's okay.